šŸŽ Surprise thatā€™ll 3x Grinchā€™s Heart

This is Better Gift Coach, where we ask you would-you-ratherā€™s thatā€™ll add instant perspective to your holidaysā€¦while keeping it light and fluffy.

Would you rather: receive 0 gifts this season - or - skip your favorite holiday tradition?

Estimated read time: 1 minute & 59 seconds

šŸ“ŠGIFT SCALE:

šŸŽTHE GIFT:

The ā€œrecreating a family tradition" Gift

Iā€™ll never forget the heartwarming gesture of my husband and his parents while I was homesick during my first Christmas at my in-laws. Without fail, my family has always maintained an annual holiday tradition of watching ā€œItā€™s a Wonderful Lifeā€ while eating chocolate ice cream with coconut toppings. As a touching surprise for me, my husband and my in-laws planned it so on Christmas Eve we all sat down to watch the movie. They even had chocolate ice cream and coconut toppings.

Jenn from New York

šŸŒ®WHY THIS GIFT IS GREAT:

  • Heartwarming gesture of welcoming

  • Surprise thatā€™s not likely to be a dud

  • Favorite holiday traditions are gifts themselves

  • Most traditions arenā€™t too difficult/expensive to replicate (and many are fun)

šŸ“‚Ā  If this gift idea is save-worthy, create a ā€œGift Ideasā€ inbox folder & file it away for future use ~or~ find it again in our library.

YOUR VERSION OF THIS GIFT

šŸ’”TIPS FOR YOUR GIFT:

  • Now is the time to sneakily ask about someoneā€™s family traditions

  • Not just an idea for the holidays and/or for S.O.ā€™s and in-laws, this gift also works for birthdays and friends living away from home

Donā€™t limit your brainstorming to recreating someoneā€™s traditionā€¦also consider creating new traditions (traditions, no matter their origin, make awesome gifts)

New holiday tradition ideas:

I personally really like these tradition ideas:

  • Calling/hosting a friend to wrap gifts together

  • "Each year, we cut a round off of the bottom of our Christmas tree. We label it with the year. Over time, it's made for a sweet display/reminder of years past." ā€“ u/SARstar367

  • "Every Christmas, the kids in the house have wrapping paper put over the entrances to their rooms so they get to rip through it in the morning!" ā€“ u/Essendxle

šŸ¤”GIFT BRAINSTORMING PROMPTS:

  • Can you recreate someoneā€™s familyā€™s holiday tradition? ______

  • What new holiday traditions (could be simple) do you want to start this year? ______

ā–¶ļøFORWARD THIS GIFT IDEA TO:

  • Newlyweds

  • New parents

  • Parents hosting their childrenā€™s spouse

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šŸ˜†GIF/MEME:

All the best,Patrick KucharsonBetter Gift Coachā„¢

P.S. Hereā€™s another of my FAQā€™s from last weekā€™s article in The New York Times.

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